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Too Forgiving

neitherday
Date and Time  - Jul. 18th, 2002, 06:25 pm

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You can only walk all over me so many times. I left the following comment here in [info]missclover's journal:

Dear Clover,

I don't know what all your crap about you wanting to be friends again at the Sinister Party several weeks ago was. The bull about you being isolated and lonely and regretful of all the rumors and gossip you spread about me a year or so ago. I forgave you, maybe a bit too hastily.

Whatever game you were playing, I know now that you were in no way sincere in your "apology". I have no intention of getting involved again with the games played by you and that little clique you run around with. I should of known by the way you were still enjoying bad mouthing others, that you had not really changed. I had thought I left all this shit behind me, and for the most part I still have. I just wanted to say, please never talk to me again, even if it is to "apologize", I want no part of your manipulative games.

-Beverly


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From:[info]non_exoteric
Date:July 18th, 2002 - 06:21 pm

:-)

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I didn't know that you even knew Clover, I hope that we can still be friends even though she is also my friend, if you can't I understand...but I would like to get to know you better!
I hope you are having a good evening!
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From:[info]neitherday
Date:July 18th, 2002 - 06:33 pm

Re: :-)

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This post was just something I had to get off the chest. I'm friends with many people who friends with [info]missclover, and from what I've read in your journal and what I saw of you briefly at Man Ray, you are definitely someone I'd like to get to know more.
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From:[info]non_exoteric
Date:July 18th, 2002 - 06:46 pm

Re: :-)

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Yea! Good, good! You made my night at Man Ray! Thank you...
:-)
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From:[info]trollopfop
Date:July 19th, 2002 - 12:27 am
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Rock the fuck on.

I don't claim to know anything about that situation, but I've been way too forgiving myself... And sometimes, you just need to cut someone off, for the sake of your own sanity.

And, yeah, I learned the hard way that if someone's bad-mouthing others all the time, they're definitely doing it to you when you're not around. People like that aren't anyone's friends, no matter what they may claim, IMNSHO.

And if anyone tells you you're being too harsh or cruel by doing this, just remember, no matter what people tell you, the reason you're doing this is not to be doing something to someone else, but for you. (At least, it sounds like it is... I could be wrong, as always.) And so if it's something you need to do for yourself and for your sanity, don't let people make you feel bad.
From:[info]disqovlad
Date:July 23rd, 2002 - 07:13 am
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Wow. I didn't even know that you knew Clover. Small goddamn world this is...