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| How to Lose a Feminist | |||
This comment by Mary Sunshine to a rather sensationalized article by Anna Greer effectively illustrates why many women (and men) have given up on calling themselves feminist.
On one hand she laments that many women don't want to be called feminist and in the next breath denounces women who call themselves feminist but don't have the exact same views as her. While some people may resiliently stick to their guns and insist they are feminist and that no single ideology has a monopoly on the term, others will simply say "Oh, okay. I guess I'm not a feminist". I've known quite a few people who fall into the latter category. People who might otherwise have identified as feminists, now entirely estranged from the movement. | |||
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| Covering Eyes | ||
Following the leak of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, I'm going to start my off-line time today. I have a lot to do in preparing for I should note that while I won't be reading anything from online for the next few days (email, comments (due to possible trolls), wikipedia, or my friends list), I may still post using Semagic does not risk seeing spoilers. I guess "very limited internet use" is more accurate than "off-line". | ||
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| Realizations | ||
On my cigar walk this morning i realized two things. The first was that today is the last day of amnesty month at the library, I best be returning that last book today. I forgot the other thing I realized, but I have a feeling it was important. I did notice that the trolls are out in reality, I saw a graffito of the URL to goatse along the bike trail up past Arlington Center. | ||
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| Drama Poll | ||
Poll #685629 Open to: All, detailed results viewable to: All When you have been involved in online drama, which of the following has been true (check as many as apply):
View Answers The drama was solely caused by the other party. Both myself and the other party caused the drama. I was the sole cause for the drama. Friends of mine defended me. I was defending a friend. Friends of the other party defended them. The other party was acting as a troll. I was acting as a troll. I have never been involved in online drama. Do you find online drama entertaining when you and those you consider friends are not involved? Do other people at times take online drama too seriously? Do you at times take online drama too seriously? Is online drama inevitable if one spends enough in time virtual communities and online forums? | ||
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| Anonymous Comments | |||
I'm enabling anonymous commenting in my journal. I'm going to be extending the policy I stated here to anonymous comments: I have found that when given absolutely no feedback, trolls generally move on to find more interactive game. | |||
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Someone from the abuse team responded to my support request. As typical with the abuse team, they picked out a couple key words in my message and sent an inappropriate form response.
I replied:
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| Redirect Abuse | |||
Abuse of <meta http-equiv="REFRESH"> is becoming more rampant, 4 days ago I submitted a suggestion to
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| Ineffective Methodology | ||
fireuzer33's profile effectively demonstrates how lj abuse is utterly useless currently and why LiveJournal needs to go back to the system of invite codes. On their profile this troll has created proudly displays the long list off accounts they have created (and gotten suspended with). I will copy the list here, as I'm sure they will be moving along to a new username in the near future. ( the list ) | ||
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| Proactive Bannings | ||
I just proactively banned all members of the following communities from my journal and all communities that I run: ( list of communities, some names contain offensive slurs ) I also went ahead and added all the new members of rapists_unite to the banning fun. | ||
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| Proactive Bannings | ||
I just used mail merge to proactively ban all members of rapists_unite from this journal and all the communities that I maintain. I may do this with other nasty gatherings of assholes I come across as well. | ||
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| Welcome Trolls | ||
Welcome trolls. All comments from non-friends will be automatically screened from this point on. I will not be unscreening or responding to any future troll comments, I will simply be deleting them. That is all. | ||
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| Small Movement | |||
At least this is something. Not much, but something. I have no more energy to devote to this issue. | |||
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| New Angle | ||||||
A response. Someone actually read what I said, and responded!
Apparently a community that states it is for rapists and that glorifies rape and belittles victims doesn't incite rape. Interesting. Without knowing the details of the abuse correspondences about antirape, it seems impossible to effectively dispute their judgment on either issue. A new angle is needed. Conveniently enough, Taking this new angle, I have submitted a new report.
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| Form Response | ||||||
Surprise, surprise. I got the form response that everyone else who mentioned rapists_unite has gotten. This is starting to feel like déjà vu.
My reply was simple and to the point.
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| Double Standards | |||
I submitted the following question to LiveJournal abuse. I wonder how they will answer.
I anticipate that they will not actually read it, and instead simply send me a form response. I felt I did have to say something to them however. | |||
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| The Myth of Open Forums | ||
Why is hate speech a problem in online forums? Why do I get upset about it? Why do I not tolerate it in any of the online forums I run? Because hate speech and attacks on specific individuals and on specific groups are often and regularly used to systematically exclude certain populations from the discussion. I guess people could just "suck it up", some people do, for a while at least. Most people of the selected groups however realize that participating in the forum is not worth the mental abuse and stress of the constant attacks. Even in the cases where a user stays for a while, the constant attacks, often lauded by others in the forum, eliminates any respect and impact the target's words may receive. They are effectively silenced. While many of these forums claim to be open, by allowing this sort of activity they are in fact not. They are closed forums that allow in prey occasionally. I have noticed that only traditionally oppressed groups are expected to "suck it up" in these supposedly "open forums". Try saying anything negative about, for example, straight people, and you will instantly get a barrage of "reverse discrimination", "just as bad as any other form of prejudice" or "not all straight people are like that" from the very same people who are constantly telling you to "suck it up". They can dish it out, but they can't take it. The people who frequent these "open forums" complain wildly about any forum that doesn't allow them to air their hate. They claim their free speech is violated because they cannot evict by harassment any groups they do not like. The very same people who state "if you don't like it, start your own forum" are the ones who will complain that your forum doesn't also exclude you. They will go to great lengths to try to harass the forums, making many have to moderate posts and screen people who want to join the forum. These actions alone result in a diminishing of both membership and post volume, further dampening the voices of those who need the forum. On the rare occasion I venture into some of the notorious "open forums" here on LiveJournal, I use one of two "fake" accounts. In these "open forums" I cannot give any details about my life experience. Nor do I feel comfortable even being there, but at least I can say something when I feel it is very necessary. Essentially, as long as I am completely closeted about being bisexual, a female feminst, transgendered, mentally ill, and a rape victim I can participate in the community without being constantly bullied until I leave, because it's "open to everyone". | ||
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| Fuck LiveJournal Abuse | ||
I thought pro-ana communities like Where is Hothead when you need her? | ||
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| Suspended | ||
LJ Abuse actually did something about something I brought up. They deleted the hundred or so communities that the troll had created. I think there needs to be a way to avoid this sort of problem getting out of hand. I have a couple ideas I'm tempted to post in ----- The report I filed a month ago about | ||
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| New Way to Troll | |||
I just submitted the following abuse report:
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